If he can get only 6s and 7’s in looks, he’s probably a 6 or a 7 in looks himself. They would rather tilt at windmills, trying to acquire a partner who DOESN’T want them, instead of realizing that the BEST partner for them is the one who WANTS them and VALUES them and thinks THEY are a catch. Our unrealistic expectations – of how we see ourselves – and of what we expect of our partners.
Therefore, if he ever wants to get married, it would probably make sense to start appreciating the 6s and 7’s and choose the one that he’s most attracted to, who shares the same values and can be his best friend for life. If you price a candy bar at $100 and there are no buyers, you need to lower the price of the candy bar.
“Almost relationships” are basically defined as a dating grey area, like when you’re seeing someone but you never take the step to become a real couple. Here are 14 reasons why “almost relationships” are total BS:“Almost” doesn’t mean anything.
Would you go around talking about how you “almost” won a million dollars or “almost” achieved a dream?
The reason I’m bringing this up is that I made a CHOICE to find an amazing partner and create an amazing life – and all I had to do was give up that IMAGE that I’d had of dating a woman who was Just. And that something is this: If a 42-year-old man says that he’s ONLY attracted to 9’s and 10’s who are in their late 20’s, that’s fabulous.