And the real-world opportunities can be few and far between. I can’t disagree with anything you’ve observed about online dating and age. So here are the facts: Older men have more options than older women (online and in real life) because they can usually date somewhat younger.
Older men have a huge blind spot when it comes to age.
Online dating search criteria
” You think you’re doing everything you can possibly do. I don’t know the answer, but most people who say they’ve taken my advice have only taken a few pieces of my advice.
And you may be trying your best, but you’re not truly maximizing your potential. Which is like saying you’re going on a diet by cutting out sugar, but continuing to eat large portions of fried foods.
They refuse to even consider women their own age, even if she’s fit and attractive.
Worse, they’re hypocritical about it, because they don’t understand why the vast majority of younger women won’t go for them.
Having a profile on isn’t going to keep you from doing that.