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“Honestly,” she says, “dating got pretty easy once my body image improved.” Looking back, she adds, “I think I was always my biggest barrier with dating. A lot of plus-size women fear becoming a fetish object rather than a romantic partner — at least I did while dating.
I wonder if there would have been a lot more chances to date had I felt better about myself [earlier on].”I know, I know, if we could all just snap our fingers and be confident, everything would be solved and this story would be over by the end of this sentence. While many women might really enjoy being someone’s fetish, I assumed most would not.
You can follow Kelsey's journey on Twitter and Instagram at @mskelseymiller, or right here on Facebook. “There are people with whom you might get along great, on a base level — on a spiritual level, an emotional level — who might just have those biases,” she adds.
But it’s their loss, because: “I hope that there are also an equal number of people who don’t.
Just like dating, self-confidence is challenging for almost everyone. So, I asked Ospina how to keep an eye out for fat fetishists in the dating pool. First: “I’m inherently anti fetish-shaming, as a general rule.