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C.’s Stockholm syndrome—a coping mechanism for having settled for a steady, dull job in a too-small town with deficient natural lighting.In the year that followed, I've learned that my friends and I were both half right: Washington is for nesters, and Los Angeles is for loners, but this has little relation to our populations’ reputations for titanium SAT scores or prominent cheek bones. When I decided to end my eight-year stint in Washington, D. and decamp to Los Angeles last summer, my friends in the capital looked at me like I had announced plans to eject myself into space.

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They spend more free time hustling than they do staring into one anothers’ eyes. One night at a low-lit Mexican restaurant in Los Angeles, the man at the table next to me asked his bored date, “Have you seen my reel? C.—where federal jobs have been relatively insulated from the recession—a weighty business card pressed into a palm is enough to relay a dater’s social standing. The city’s 600,000 residents are packed in to 65 square miles within the District line. Every evening when happy hour hits, suburban prospects come to them—the city’s population balloons by a million extra workers during the day. But there in the middle of 500 miles of sprawl, it was all of a sudden strange to be sitting too close on a couch with the clock ticking down. Sometimes, it’s good to have some space for yourself.

In New York or Los Angeles, the high proportion of singles can feel overwhelming. C., it’s intimate—these people bump into each other on the metro, caffeinate at the same cafes, and unwind at the same bars, week in and week out.

present volume of daters as a positive, but the research of Sheena Iyengar suggests otherwise.

Back in the ‘90s, Iyengar noticed something odd about her local luxury grocery store.

Of the Los Angeles metro’s 12.7 million people, 54 percent of households aren’t hitched. New York ranks the highest in online dating—singles in the five boroughs make up 8 percent of the entire user database of

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